In a recent social media controversy, Filipino actress and comedian Kakai Bautista faced derogatory comments from social media influencer Rendon Labrador.
However, her close friend, Tuesday Vargas, swiftly came to her defense, condemning the derogatory remarks and shedding light on society’s harmful beauty standards.
The controversy unfolded on June 5 when Bautista took to her Facebook account to assert her independence, emphasizing that she doesn’t rely on a romantic partner for happiness, but rather seeks financial stability. Her empowering post resonated with numerous netizens, including Labrador, who chose to respond with a disrespectful comment targeting Bautista below the belt.
Bautista wrote: “Minsan gusto din talagang lumandi at mamamsin ng lalake pero kapag naiisip ko yung mga bayarin, gusto ko pang ma-achieve para sa sarili ko, NAGIGISING ako sa KATOTOHANANG di ko kailangan ng LALAKE para sumaya. KAILANGAN ko PERA. (emoji)”
Labrador’s comment, which reads, “Hindi ka na nga maganda, mukha ka pang pera”, caught Vargas’ attention. As a friend and fellow artist, Vargas felt compelled to defend Bautista’s honor and took to her own Facebook account to address Labrador’s uncalled-for remarks.
Starting with the words, “Usapang Ganda at Pera”, Vargas called out Labrador’s repeated attacks on Bautista, expressing her disappointment at his continued disrespect. Vargas also took the opportunity to shed light on the toxic beauty standards prevalent in society, encouraging everyone to rethink their perspectives on beauty.
“Usapang Ganda at Pera. “Aba hindi pa po pala siya tapos. Akala namin tumahimik na ng ilang linggo kaya wala na pong iba pang hirit. Pero ayan na naman siya. “Hindi ka na nga maganda, mukha ka pang pera”. “Yan po ang huling binato,” Vargas started.
Vargas proceeded to delve into the prevailing toxic standards and societal norms that afflict our present-day society, with a sincere intention to foster understanding and redefine the notion of beauty for all.
“Sa tingin ko ganito yan: “1. Naging normal na batian sa mga Pinoy gatherings ang tanong ‘May asawa ka na ba?’ “Ka dikit yan ng ‘Huy tumaba ka ah’ saka yung classic na ‘Alam mo ba ang anak ni __ nurse sa America. Ang yaman na nila! Ikaw ba anong work mo? Magkano swelduhan dyan?’
Let us normalize minding our own business and reserve judgement on the decision making capacity of everyone we talk to. “Kaya kung walang jowa, gusto career muna- DAPAT WALA KANG PAKI ALAM DOON.
“2. Money is energy. Hindi masama i seek ang energy na ito lalo na kung ang pinag lalaanan mo nito ay mga taong mahal mo sa buhay. Hindi lahat pinanganak na financially secure. So respect other people’s hustle. Basta marangal, pinaghihirapan nila at walang naapakan, again dapat: WALA KANG PAKI ALAM DOON.
“3. Ang ganda ay very subjective. Iba iba tayo ng concept ng beauty. “Kung maka sabi na panget yung kinokomentuhan akala mo naman napaka nuknukan nya ng gwapo.
“Minding your own business, at its heart, is focusing on what you can control and letting go of what you can’t. It is taking responsibility for your own thoughts and actions, and letting other people take responsibility for their own thoughts and actions.”
“Iyan lang ang tanging bagay na pwede mong ma i ambag sa mundo.” Vargas ended.
Tuesday Vargas, a highly acclaimed singer, actress, and comedian, has achieved widespread recognition for her remarkable contributions to the entertainment industry. She is best known for her role as a resident judge on TV5’s Talentadong Pinoy, while also having made notable appearances on GMA Network and TV5 Network. Furthermore, Vargas has previously collaborated with ABS-CBN, showcasing her versatility across different networks.
On the other hand, Kakai Bautista has garnered significant acclaim for her performances in various films, such as “Four Sisters Before the Wedding” (2020), “Darna” (2009), and “The Two of Us” (2009). Currently, she is actively involved in the television series “First Yaya,” which is broadcasted on GMA Network.
While Bautista has not directly responded to Labrador’s comment, Vargas’s prompt defense of her friend not only demonstrates her unwavering loyalty but also showcases her ability to critically address societal issues. Vargas serves as an inspiring role model, particularly for her dedicated fan base who eagerly anticipate her every endeavor.
