It’s Showtime host Vice Ganda gave his advice on dealing with relationship problems in the Tuesday episode of the show.
The discussion came up after a Tawag ng Tanghalan contestant shared that he and his girlfriend usually have quarrels due to his addiction to mobile games.
Jhong Hilario then quipped that his girlfriend might get fed up with their repetitive problems. The latter then asked Vice how he handles this kind of situation in a relationship.
The popular comedian said, “Sa akin, wala sa laki o liit [ng problema], wala sa dalas.”
Vice believed that as long as the love remains, forgiveness, and understanding can also be given out.
“Bibitaw ako ‘pag hindi ko na mahal. Kasi ang pagmamahal, kakambal niyan ay pasensya, pagpapatawad, sakripisyo.”
“Pero ‘pag hindi mo na siya mahal, hindi ka na magpapasensya, hindi ka na magpapatawad, hindi ka na magsasakripisyo. Pero hangga’t mahal mo ‘yung tao, meron kang dahilan para magsakripisyo, may dahilan ka para magpatawad, umunawa,” he said.
“Kung mahal, ko, sige go, mahal ko ‘yan, e. Pero kung hindi na kita mahal, kahit maliit pa ‘yan, hindi na kita mapapatawad. Kung mahal kita, kahit malaki ‘yan, kaya kitang patawarin. Dahil ‘yung pagmamahal ko, kakambal niyan ay pagpapatawad, sakrisipisyo, at pang-unawa.”
In response to this, the contestant said that he always reminds his girlfriend of his love at the end of their fights.
Vice then noted the importance of reconciliation and remedying mistakes done against a loved one.
“Meron naman tayo lahat pagkukulang, pero kung alam mo nang nagkulang ka, bumawi ka naman. Maglambing ka naman. Ang masakit diyan ‘yung alam mo nang nagkulang ka, pero wala kang ginawa,” he said.
“Lahat tayo nagkukulang, hindi tayo perfect. Lahat tayo merong kahinaan, nagkukulang tayo. Pero i-acknowledge natin, at tanggapin natin ‘yung pagkukulang, aminin natin sa sarili, at bumawi tayo. Kasi, deserve niya ‘yun, e. Mahal natin siya, kaya kailangan bumawi tayo. Pag mahal mo ‘yung tao, gusto mo, magaan ang pakiramdam niya.”
The 44-year-old host has been in a relationship with Ion Perez for almost two years now.He confirmed their romance last year after months of speculations from fans.
